Emily,
My wife is in the military and constantly gone. We've disscussed her having boy toys while away but it has always been just talk. She's dated black guys in the past and has been pretty open about how she enjoyed being fucked by them and that the ones she was with fucked like stallions.....etc. Her last time gone she was approached by black guys but kind of shrugged it off mentioning though she'd consider it the next time she's gone for a month. she is a natural flirt and likes to act a bit wild when drinking and has made no apologies for how she is. And although she's quite satisfied with our sex life she is rather naive and inexperienced. Like I mentioned she's gones for extended periods so we both know it's only a matter of time before she does sleep with someone else and the fact it's usually brothas that hit on her I'd be willing to bet it'll be with a black guy. Do you see any real harm in her having that kind of freedom for say a month or two with black guys vice white guys. Do you think her naive charm and corruptability is going to enhance her experiences and if so should I just assume that with black guys it will probably go a bit further than with your typical white guys?
Be careful what you wish for. Clearly she is 'flirting' more with Black guys to attract their attention. I'm not sure the concept of naive charm and corruptability is going to enhance anything. If anything it's going to mean she is going to get emotionally attached to someone other than you. Further more what makes you think that once she's back with you she is going to be satisfied with only you? This approach that you're taking to me sounds like a recipe for disaster. It sounds like fertile grounds for dishonestly and hidden relationships. Simply put I don't think you're being honest with her, or yourself. You want a Slut Wife. You get turned on by the idea of having a Black Cock Slut. Nothing wrong with that, many many men do. And many are now experiencing that. However, that type of relationship is based on honesty. From both parties. My suggestion before things get too complicated and complex is to level with her. Tell her what you want. Tell her of your approval and support in this modern type of marriage. Eliminate the possibility of betrayal and dishonesty from the start. Good Luck!
Let Emily know what you thought of this: Ask Slut Emily
And be sure to check out the FREE Slut Wife Talk Forums!
Words of Encouragement
Let me offer some words of encourage to want to be cucks that think their wife is moving to slow in cucking them. The following is a history about how I became a cuck to my wife.
My wife and I meet on line on a chat site, she was in upstate NY and I was in Seattle. She soon moved to FL after leaving her oppressive husband. I was in the middle of a divorce myself and was looking for a change. By simple luck we ended up in the same part of FL at new jobs. So our journey really started then. I was looking for a dominant woman and she was looking for a submissive man. Well things slowly started to move in the right direction after we worked out what we both wanted in this D/s relationship. I simply told her I would love her like no one had ever loved her.
Before we even moved into together we spent many hundreds of hrs on Yahoo messenger talking. We talked more and got to know each other better than most couples do face to face. Her biggest concern was she wanted freedom to do has she wished and I told her I would certainly have no issue with that. Once we moved into together I told her of my cuckolding experience with other women. At first she was a little shocked but then she saw the benefits of that type of relationship. Her worry was how it would really affect us as a couple. We played with the fantasy for some time. She wanted to move slow and wanted her to hurry up and make the move and see other men. She started going out with GFs and finding out that other men were interested in her. She still was unsure and despite all of my reassurances that it would not harm us, she still could not take that first step into cucking me.
She made the discussion to stop having intercourse with me because my cock was too small to give her any real pleasure. It would be oral sex from now on. I was fine with that because I always preferred to give a woman an orgasm that way. I was not allowed to cum unless she wished it. 3 yrs later we have married and I have not fucked her and only cum when she wants me to.
Finally she signed up on a swinger site a couple of them actually. She emailed a number of guys back and forth. Until she decide to meet one. She set up a meet and greet with this guy. I was to be there with her and if I noticed that she was becoming interested in him I was to excuse myself and go out to the car and wait. Well I ended up in the car while they talked. When they came out and he walked her to the car she stood by the car window and started to kiss him letting his hands roam over her body. I was of course rock hard or as hard as I could in a CB3k. Her hand slowly went down and started to stroke his cock. That's the point when I knew she would never look back and I was going to be her cuck for the rest of my life.
Well it's been several years since that night. She now goes out and if she finds the right guy she will take him home and fuck him. I am no longer allowed most of the time to watch her fuck other men. She has become a BBC lover. One of her lovers still wants me to be dressed like a sissy and watch him take my wife and fuck her. He loves the power he has over both of us at that time. My wife has 3 regular lovers at this time. Two are local and one flies into town at least once a month for business. Plus any other men she finds interesting. There is only one she goes bareback with. I still love to eat her fresh fucked pussy cum or no cum. Sometimes she allows me to cum has she tells me how much she enjoyed her time with a real man. There are times I am not allowed to cum.
So 10 years after starting down the cuckold path we are a loving D/s couple into cuckolding. The bull is there only as an enhancement to our life not the main part of it. As her cuck I am here to serve her and her lovers. I take care of all the daily things so she feel free to see a real man any time she wishes. This week is our 7th anniversary and she is seeing two different men to celebrate it. I will be at home entraining her dad who is in from out of town while she enjoys herself. My commitment to her as husband and cuckold comes first before my own needs. Being a cuckold couple has brought us closer together and we are very upfront and honest about everything. Being honest and communicating with each other is very important in a cuckold relationship. Without it you as a couple will not survive.
I am a cuckold that is kept in chastity and I have never been happier.
Thank you for that and Good Luck!
Let Emily know what you thought of this: Ask Slut Emily
And be sure to check out the FREE Slut Wife Talk Forums!
More Emily...
DISCLAIMER:
Slut Emily's advice is provided for entertainment purposes
only. Never should you take the advice of anyone other than
a trained
professional in dealing with complex psychological issues.
Slut Emily's opinion is just that, her opinion
That's
it, later gators.
